I have been privileged enough in my life to work with children. Neither child care nor teaching are my life goals but somehow I have ended up teaching, babysitting, nannying and practically mothering kids from all over. I have done so in India, Italy, and America, both in cities and in the countryside. Needless to say the children I’ve known have been of different ethnicity, religious backgrounds, and parenting methods. Though I have learned quite a lot about what to do (or not to do) when I have my own children, the most valuable lesson is the effect I see in children who meditate on a regular basis as opposed to those who do not.
Around fifty percent of the childcare I’ve done has been with kids who meditate and the benefits I have seen them reap are huge. In groups of non-meditating kids you see two types emerge: leaders and followers. Every child I know who meditates on a regular basis has the confidence of a leader. They are able to face and overcome their fears and weaknesses. These kids also tend to be more balanced and resolve conflicts among each other with surprising ease. Non-meditating kids tend to have trouble paying attention in school, and who can blame them growing up in the age of technological bombardment? The constant over stimulation from the media makes it hard for a lot of kids to focus for any period of time but I have seen that after meditation it is easier for children to sit still and pay attention.
I have been amazed time after time by the effects that meditation has on a child’s ability to learn, to introspect and to remain peaceful in a world of chaos. I figure if I can give my own children any advantage in the rat race, a few minutes of meditation a day is definitely worth it.
Sophia Joseph (New York, USA)




